Strong Women.

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Today, my Sister in Law texted me .. “You are a very strong woman”..

Thank you Anuradha. I am touched by this compliment.

But…

A few of my very close friends have also mentioned this to me .. even my Niece.. on my journey to what I am today.

But…

How do I exactly define being strong? Only muscle power? I guess no.

None of them have meant muscle power… I am sure… and I know that….

I am not even sure if I can refer this strength as my Will Power…

I just know I have to move on… just can’t stand in one place…

I have to get things done…

Time is running out…

I just know that I have to be strong because I have to be me…

I know that my kids are watching me… hence the show of strength maybe…

I know I have to be strong because I have to survive….

I AM a survivor…

I have walked a long way… a difficult way… which has made me what I am today…

“A strong Woman” …

Yes.. I have overcome battles which many can never think of…

I have lived the proverb… “Life is not a bed of roses… but of the hidden thorns..”

I have fallen down many times and lost my spark… but I have made sure every time I stood up, I was a damn new fire..

But …

The Flip side of being strong is also not easy either…

 The ‘Strong Woman’ Tag comes with its unique policies and Terms and conditions…

Being Strong … makes you a difficult person..

Being Strong … makes you an over thinker…

Being Strong … is only possible when you have broken in thousand pieces…

Being Strong … only happens when you have killed yourself inside…

Being Strong … is when you only smile through everything…

Being Strong … is when you have buried your feeling … Don’t know where…

Being Strong … is when the becoming has cost you lots of people… relationships…

Being Strong … is when your back is adorned with daggers…

Being Strong … is when you are totally incapable of loving anyone…

Being Strong … is when you have been capable of calming the monster inside you..

Being Strong … is when you can never be able to carry lipstick on lips properly !!..

Being Strong … is when you are absolutely LONELY in the crowd.

You are a very Strong Woman…. This phrase has made me realize a lot of things today…

I have killed myself somewhere in the becoming …

I have lost myself in this becoming….

I have lost the ability to love….

And there is no Un-Becoming…

Being Strong is more of a Vile than a Virtue…

I never wanted to be strong…

But … yes… This strength has made me a survivor…

What I have realized is that..

A Strong woman is a woman who is determined to do something.

The Being Strong factor has made me realize that in fact I have started to feel more deeply… and can probably love more fiercely…

My tears flow just as abundantly as my laughter…

I have become ruthless and soft at the same time… albiet, have hidden the softness… because people take advantage…

I am also strong enough to stand Alone.

I have learnt to trust my path without having to prove anything to anyone..

I can see a living soul .. a resonating soul when I look in certain people’s eyes..

I have mastered the strength to disappear sometimes…

Above all… I have learned to sail my ship… I have learned to steer the storm..

Yes.. I am a Strong Woman.